Home

Visiting the Family of 

Bonthong, Sombarn, and Sokhun

February 2012

 

Last year when I was in Siem Reap (Angkor Wat) I became friends with Bonthong and Sombarn.  This year I met their sister Sokhun.  They asked if I'd like to visit their "homeland," a 4-hour journey from Siem Reap, near the northern tip of Tonle Sap, a large lake.  

I leapt at the chance.

We were joined by Eileen, an American woman who has spent a good deal of time in Cambodia, helping out with various educational projects, and by a friend of the family, Sophal.

 

 

 

The trip was an hour by tuk tuk

 

that most versatile Cambodian taxi 

 

 

and 3 hours by boat

 

Sombarn

Bonthong

Sokhun

Sophal

Eileen

 

 

The road trip was through peaceful agricultural land

 

 

 

with a minor Cambodian traffic jam

 

 

 

We arrive at our port, board our boat

 

 

 

 

 

and head out

 

27-second video

We leave port

 

 

 

sharing the river with fellow travelers

 

 

Before long we encountered heavy concentrations of floating vegetation

 

 

We tried pushing through it

 

 

 

 

 

But the propeller got tangled in the weeds

 

5-second video

Heading through the tangle

 

 

 

 

 

 

10 minutes of sustained pushing and pulling, though, and we were again free

13-second video

Thru a narrow channel

 

 

 

and once again passing friendly river people

 

 

 

passing a floating village

9-second video

Floating Village

 

 

and we arrive at the home of Kan and her family

this is also part of a floating village, Thvang

 

 

 

Kan (the woman) is a cousin of Bonthong, Sombarn, and Sokhun

 

 

 

their family business is batteries, with the noise from the generators sounding much of the day

 

 

after some minutes we head to shore, where we hear music coming from a wedding celebration

We head that way and encounter a gathering place that sells snacks

We hang out there, having fun with the kids 

 

13-second video

Hanging out with the kids

with Eileen in a cameo appearance

 

23-second video

Clowning with the kids

 

 

who are sooo alive, sooo vibrant

 

 

 

 

 

then we arrive at the wedding tent, where the wedding party is seated

 

 

and we're immediately invited in by the master of ceremonies, and given front-row seats of honor

 

 

 

Eileen thought the groom looked a little scared

 

 

the venerable master of ceremonies stirs the love potion

and offers up some incantations

 

12-second video

Master of Ceremonies stirs the love potion

 

 

 

after which there's a bit of pageantry--singing and acting a bit of approach/avoidance

 

30-second video

The dance pantomime

 

but then they seemed to reach an accord

30-second video

The next dance

 

 

 

on the way back to Kan's house we visit a crocodile farm, a burgeoning industry in this traditional fishing village

 

13-second video

We visit a crocodile farm

 

 

and after Sombarn and Bonthong take a refreshing plunge

 

 

 

we sit down to a dinner of fresh fish, rice, and veggies

 

 

 

and after a last round of goodbyes and picture taking

 

 

 

we again board our trusty craft

 

 

 

piloted by this redoubtable gentleman

 

 

 

and head back through the world of river villages, intriguing combinations of floating and on-shore structures

 

 

29-second video

Floating Village

 

 

 

again enjoying the company of people for whom the river is their world

 

29-second video

The trip home

 

 

 

and after docking we travel a few kilometers to the home of an uncle of Sokhun, Bonthong, and Sombarn

 

 

a small man who has aged well

 

 

 

 

 

and after half an hour of family reunion, we head home

Next          A Family on the Edge

Cambodia 2012 index 

Lee's home page