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Huong Family Visit

 

 

During my stay at Friendship Village I met Huong, one of a group of university students

She's the woman on my right

She emailed me, told me she was going north to Lao Cai to visit her family

 

 

So I managed to get myself invited along.

 

It's an overnight train ride from Hanoi to Lao Cai

 

There are 4 classes of passage on this train: hard seat, soft seat, hard sleeper, soft sleeper

Soft means padded

We could get only hard seats--and they definitely were that

But my 72-yr-old bones managed to make it through the night

 

Upon arrival in Lao Cai, we booked a minibus ride to Muong Khong, 

 

 

Muong Khong is in an area where many hill tribes (i.e. indigenous) live

 

 

We turn up the path to Huong's sister's house

 

 

and share our first meal

 

Dung (Huong's brother-in-law), Chieu (Huong's mother), Tham (Huong's sister), Huong

 

 

 

Dung, Tham, Lee

 

 

Lee and Dung

 

 

Huong's mother Chieu is currently living with them, a great helper 

Chieu, Dung, Loan

 

 

I took a hotel situated on the corner of the town's main intersection

Looking from the balcony outside my room, up that street is the big Sunday market

 

 

I returned later to find them hosing down the entire living room

It helps to have tiled rooms with good drainage

 

 

After one night in Muong Khong we return to Lao Cai, where Huong's father and other siblings live

First on the agenda was dinner at the home of Huong's sister Thu

 

 

 

Setup is simplicity itself

Spread newspapers on the floor, put all the food out

 

 

no furniture, just the floor

 

 

and even in this spacious kitchen, with cupboards, sink, and workspace...

 

...the dishwashing is done out back, in basins on the floor

and when I tried to help, I was politely but firmly told No, this is not men's work

 

 

the men gather in the living room

 

 

Huong was delighted to see her nieces Chi... 

 

 

...and Ngan, a feisty little toddler

 

After dinner I was taken to a hotel

 

and the next day invited to lunch at the home of Trong, Huong's father

 

 

 

joined by Tranh (Huong's sister-in-law) and her daughter Anh

 

 

and Huong's mother Chieu

 

 

 

In Vietnam--as in the other SE Asia countries I visited--kitchens are most often, by Western standards, quite rudimentary, often primitive

 

this is a solidly middle class home

 

 

 

but kitchen facilities are not given the same priority as other rooms in the house

 

 

and again, cleanup is accomplished with minimal fuss, and is very floor oriented

So after 3 nights in the north country, Huong and I again board the night train and return to Hanoi

And again, on hard seats

But I have a soft spot in my heart for Huong and her wonderful family

 

 

Huong's Family Photo Gallery

This gallery is meant primarily for Huong and her family.  It consists of "outtakes" from the above blog segment

Though it may be of little interest to the casual visitor, feel free to browse

 

 

 

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