During my stay at Friendship Village I met Huong, one of
a group of university students
She's the woman on my right
She emailed me, told me she was going north to Lao Cai
to visit her family
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There are 4 classes of passage on this train: hard seat,
soft seat, hard sleeper, soft sleeper
Soft means padded
We could get only hard seats--and they definitely were
that
But my 72-yr-old bones managed to make it through the
night
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Upon arrival in Lao Cai, we booked a minibus ride to
Muong Khong,
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Muong Khong is in an area where many hill tribes (i.e. indigenous) live
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We turn up the path to Huong's sister's house
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and share our first meal
Dung (Huong's brother-in-law), Chieu (Huong's mother),
Tham (Huong's sister), Huong
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Dung, Tham, Lee
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Lee and Dung
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Huong's mother Chieu is currently
living with them, a great helper
Chieu, Dung, Loan
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I took a hotel situated on the corner of the town's main
intersection
Looking from the balcony outside my room, up that street is the big
Sunday market
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I returned later to find them hosing down the entire living room
It helps to have tiled rooms with good drainage
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After one night in Muong Khong we return to Lao Cai, where Huong's
father and other siblings live
First on the agenda was dinner at the home of Huong's sister Thu
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Setup is simplicity itself
Spread newspapers on the floor, put all the food out
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no furniture, just the floor
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and even in this spacious kitchen, with cupboards, sink,
and workspace...
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...the dishwashing is done out back, in basins on the
floor
and when I tried to help, I was politely but firmly told
No, this is not men's work
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the men gather in the living room
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Huong was delighted to see her nieces Chi...
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...and Ngan, a feisty little toddler
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After dinner I was taken to a hotel
and the next day invited to lunch at the home of Trong,
Huong's father
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joined by Tranh (Huong's sister-in-law) and her daughter
Anh
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and Huong's mother Chieu
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In Vietnam--as in the other SE Asia countries I
visited--kitchens are most often, by Western standards, quite rudimentary,
often primitive
this is a solidly middle class home
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but kitchen facilities are not given the same priority
as other rooms in the house
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and again, cleanup is accomplished with minimal fuss,
and is very floor oriented
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So after 3 nights in the north country, Huong and I again
board the night train and return to Hanoi
And again, on hard seats
But I have a soft spot in my heart for Huong and her
wonderful family
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Huong's
Family Photo Gallery
This gallery is meant primarily for
Huong and her family. It consists of "outtakes" from the
above blog segment
Though it may be of little interest to
the casual visitor, feel free to browse
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